, Mrs went to collect a parcel addressed to me, as we were out yesterday the postie left that bit of red & white card, girl behind counter says "Sorry, you have no ID with you for Mr Finnbear", so she carries on out to work, Mrs rings me & lets me know, so I ask her for the reference info off the card, I then go to post office & present my passport and the reference details, girl behind counter says "Sorry, you don't have the card with you, I am not allowed to let you have your parcel without it" .............. How the ~*"+ would I be in possession of the reference number if the thing wasn't intended for me?