The English language is a funny animal. I think people on this site read too much into some posts, or misinterpret what the posters intentions are.
In my opinion we have a growing number of folk who are turning to deer stalking and numbers are rising, therefore a site such as this is bound to get people looking for places on syndicates or ground, and we all know how hard it can be to get ground and retain it.
There is nothing wrong with asking on this site, after all there are very few places such as the SD, and many on here have found friendships and got onto syndicates or even found ground of their own. We do not discourage people from asking and would hope that some form of courtesy is offered, which in many instances has happened through the kindness of the members on this site.