Not wishing to hijack any recent threads, I just wanted to point anyone on here who may be going through - or knowing that they may shortly have to go through - a tough time, to the following -
Grief is good by Hilary Hart - here (it waffles a lot, but the gist is very good)
http://www.hilaryhart.org/articles/grief-is-good.html
and Sheryl Sandberg's letter to her husband who died after falling off a treadmill in a Gym - here (especially the bit about "kicking the sh*t out of plan B).
https://www.facebook.com/sheryl/posts/10155617891025177:0
(You don't need to sign up to Farcebook, just scroll down).
I am unashamedly crap in similar situations but found these very helpful and hope they help someone.
Grief is good by Hilary Hart - here (it waffles a lot, but the gist is very good)
http://www.hilaryhart.org/articles/grief-is-good.html
and Sheryl Sandberg's letter to her husband who died after falling off a treadmill in a Gym - here (especially the bit about "kicking the sh*t out of plan B).
https://www.facebook.com/sheryl/posts/10155617891025177:0
(You don't need to sign up to Farcebook, just scroll down).
I am unashamedly crap in similar situations but found these very helpful and hope they help someone.