i went through this with my sprocker , he became dizzy and off balance thankfully no aggression so i did the hardest thing and it broke my heart , 6'4'' 20 stone crying like a baby but i held him to the end.
i'd had 15 fabulous years with the dog of a lifetime and still can't bring myself to get another
i always remember this , they give us complete love and devotion their entire life so at the end you owe them company as they drift off , their whole world (you) needs to be there till they are gone , it's hard but you owe them a last hug as they go don't just send them off with the vet because they should be with familiar faces not strangers at the end
great i'm crying now ffs
Understandable, completely.I couldn't bring myself round to go in with my dog at the end, My mother passed away unexpectedly an hour before his vets appointment and the dementia had set in really bad with him so I still had to take him because it wasn't fair on him but with everything going on my wife had to take him in because I really don't think I could have coped.
Perhaps not a bad way for an old lab to go.My last girl left this world half way through a meat and two veg dinner...
Full disclosure , I didn’t copeI couldn't bring myself round to go in with my dog at the end, My mother passed away unexpectedly an hour before his vets appointment and the dementia had set in really bad with him so I still had to take him because it wasn't fair on him but with everything going on my wife had to take him in because I really don't think I could have coped.
No thoughts about a new pup?It’s the empty kennels that get to me, they have been sold but won’t go until new year.
Under the Apple trees....I’ve had to do it several times, once I did it myself with a dog that absolutely hated the vets, I’ll never do that again.
With the others I brought them in, brought them home and buried them in the garden where I can go to visit and reminisce.
It’s not easy, but I owe them.
Don’t go telling me I can’t bury them in the garden, I can, and I will as long as I live here.
Some rules are made to be broken.
A good friend gave me this advice, after 5/6 years get another dog, it will learn from the older dog, keep the older dog on its toes and you perhaps dont work them before they are ready and you then have another mate to keep you company. We left ours a bit later, but I can vouch for the teaching bit.It’s the empty kennels that get to me, they have been sold but won’t go until new year.
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@Cogswell & HarrisonThat was Bella's story.
Our old girl just now worrying about all this fuss….@Cogswell & Harrison
If it doesn't hurt like hell when they die, you didn't deserve to share their life when they lived.
Sounds to me like she had the most wonderful life.

Hi there, sorry to hear this. I lost my spaniel last year aged 15 1/2. He went a bit odd at 11. Sat in pigeon hide, i sent him for a bird and he leapt on it with both front feet like he would a toy, then buggered off 200yd shaking it like a patterdale.My 12 year old working cocker is showing ever increasing signs of dementia.
He is becoming aggresive, insesant barking, and going round in circles.
Just wondering if people had any experience/ views.
I’ve had two periods in my life without a dog. One was a year, one 18 months. I can honestly say it was awful being without. We saw people walking their dogs and felt we were missing out on one of life’s basic needs.I keep 6 yrs between all my 3 dogs
I always have three , and I try to keep 6 yrs ( maximum) between them.
When you put a dog down, don’t leave it longer than a month to replace the dog.
You’ll only regret it if you do.
HiHi there, sorry to hear this. I lost my spaniel last year aged 15 1/2. He went a bit odd at 11. Sat in pigeon hide, i sent him for a bird and he leapt on it with both front feet like he would a toy, then buggered off 200yd shaking it like a patterdale.
Please bear with me here, it’s a bit of a story.
When he eventually brought it back it had barely a feather left. I was shocked as he was always soft mouthed. He seemed to have forgotten simple commands too so I took him to the vet as we feared dementia and she suggested something called Vivitonin. She said it is some kind of human asthma medication which opens up small blood vessels which can sometimes have a positive effect on dogs’ brains. I was sceptical but she said it doesn’t work on every dog, but if it does work you’ll see the difference almost right away.
Within two days he was a different dog. I looked back in my game book this week and noted that just two weeks later i took him to the same hide and he picked several birds and returned with them perfectly. He even caught a hare later that year ( i think the hare was poorly or stupid as it ran into cover and lost its advantage). Honestly, i can’t recommend this stuff highly enough. I bought it from an online vets to keep costs down and it was less a £ a day.
He thrived on it and we had a taste of the old dog when i misplaced his pills when we were away at the wood. He went downhill quickly and perked up within hours when we got home the next day and gave him another tablet.
It worked for my old fella and gave us and him a few more ‘good’ years together until he declined rapidly last year. But 15 plus for a hard working spannul is a great innings.
Honestly, i would at least try it for a few days and see whether it works for your dog. She said maybe 40/50% of dogs get a benefit but if it works you’ll know in a couple of days. I hope this helps.
There’s a lot of dog lovers on this site, so this will be an unpopular opinion.Hearing has gone but eye site seems OK ish.
Have a young child, so the agressive behaviour is the worrying bit for me.
Agree entirely.There’s a lot of dog lovers on this site, so this will be an unpopular opinion.
Don’t wait for an accident to happen. kids come first and any sign of aggression toward them from an animal would be one of its last acts in my house.
A friend of mine had a working terrier suddenly turn on his kid, after a few months of worrying signs. Needless to say the dog was shot, but it was a few months too late.
I count myself as a dog lover, I hope to never be without them and losing a dog is a terrible thing. But I’ve also sadly had to put down a few dogs and when they turn, they are animals, chances are you won’t be there to stop it happening.