Kindness paying dividens

Thought I'd do a quick little write up as a reminder to everyone to be hospitable to people you meet and bite your lip when met with impoliteness and hostility.

I was out lamping by myself a few weeks ago, seeing if there were any rabbits or foxes around. Middle of nowhere, pitch black night with a dim moon, cloud cover and a stiff breeze - ideal lamping conditions. After a little while with not much action I found myself in a lamp. Never known a rabbit to shine a lamp. My first thought was "who is that on my permission?" quickly followed by "I'm in the f**king crosshairs".

I hastily dived behind a hedge, flicked on my head torch and stepped out waving in the direction of the lamp. Rather worryingly, it stayed on me for a considerable length of time. 2 blokes in an offroader gently trundled down the hill toward me and as you can imagine with 3 strangers meeting each other in the middle of the night, in the middle of nowhere with guns involved it was a fairly cold conversation, opening with a "Who's this then?" from the other party. I did my utmost to remain civil and we exchanged numbers. I called my night's end at that point - amazing how finding yourself the target of a .223 can put a dampener on your motivation to shoot.

I realised that one of the chaps in the car had held the permission before me and had never been told not to come anymore, nor had he been told someone else was given permission!

I thought this was the beginning of losing my favourite permission.

A few phone calls exchanged and the long-time permission holder apologised for being cold on our meeting, which I accepted. It was an understandable reaction I thought, remembering how I felt when I saw the lamp being shone on me, he and his friend seemed to be friendly down-to-Earth blokes and I was grateful they followed the rule of not shooting until you know exactly what is in the crosshairs!

A meeting with the farmer to come to some arrangement has bore fruit, and now it not only looks like I get to keep shooting the land safely, but I also have 2 new acquaintances, and potential access to even more permissions than previously (one with a rather large Fallow population!)

It could have been so much different if during our first meeting in the field I had been angry and shouting curses at him and his mate.

Stay friendly!
 
Don’t understand your thoughts on getting shot .
I do however understand the politeness side to your post ,though Id have to shoot myself in the foot to stop me getting the first insult in .
Stems from hunting with hounds when there was never a polite exchange of words .
Glad it sorted itself though mate .
 
Don’t understand your thoughts on getting shot .
I do however understand the politeness side to your post ,though Id have to shoot myself in the foot to stop me getting the first insult in .
Stems from hunting with hounds when there was never a polite exchange of words .
Glad it sorted itself though mate .

Brilliant, you have just reminded me of an incident many years ago when I was a member of a pheasant syndicate, we only put down a few hundred birds and worked really hard to make the shoot days enjoyable. Holding birds was always a challenge and our modest bags were prized. A syndicate member who lived very locally was a great bloke but had a bit of a short fuse and one shoot day without warning we had the local hunt run its hounds through our cover crop whilst we were shooting, it also transpired that said member and one of the hunt whipper ins who also had a short fuse had some history and they hated each other. I will never forget the sight of the two of them trying to drag each other over a barbed wire topped stock fence, it was hilarious and because of the fence it was handbags and insults with both effing and blinding, wa*ker was shouted at least half a dozen times amid threats to rip each other apart. That was in the days when you could have a row without the police being called. Happy days!
 
Yup politeness is defiantly the first point of call

But in general I’m finding that staying polite doesn’t help in lot of cases with people these days

And you get to know very quickly what’s worth the hassle and when to say

F&$k off!

Some instances in life I certainly regret staying polite


Paul
 
Remember the guy out checking on owls who got shot in the chest the guy in the post was right to be worried ? stay safe to shoot auther day guys.

Chris
 
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