You are totally entitled to push for an NHS PSA test, if your GP refuses then ask for a second opinion. Women get mammograms, smears, etc and just as many men suffer and die from prostate cancer. If you have it in a male relative then you have a 50% increased likelihood of having it yourself. Caught early it’s an easy fix, caught late it’s horrible (RIP Ray, still miss you mate!)
Cheers. No history in immediate male family. (Dad old age / dementia, and uncles smoking related)
Happy to pay the price of a box of HMR for the test and to fund other testing.