Too much to bear.

You say it feels like you have lost part of yourself…..that’s because you did, Father and Son inextricably linked.
He lives on in you.
Sincere condolences.
Ken.
 
My deepest sympathies and condolences to you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you and as others have said keep on remembering the good times with your son.
 
My Deepest sympathies are with you at this sad time, stay strong. The suddenness of a loved one being taken away is so painful to deal with, as said above time will ease but not heal. Remember the joys of your son as it can help to ease your pain.

BC.
 
I am so sorry for your loss. Perhaps try to hold onto what he would want you to do with your life to remember him.

Kind wishes,

David.
 
My thoughts are with you and your family...life will never be the same, it should never be the same as you've lost the physical presence of someone who is a part of you.

The hole will never heal over, it may shrink a little, but you'll never be complete again. This is normal and rightly so.

Keep talking, keep celebrating his life and his memory will never leave you.

Let grief flow its natural course, this could be years or a lifetime, don't fight it buddy...if tears come, let them flow.

Although I don't know you if you feel like a strangers ear can be of use drop me a pm
 
Words are inadequate for times/things like this, really sorry to hear of your loss
Treasure the memories, mention him & talk about him as much as you can bear
 
Glynn
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Talk about Charlie to family and friends. I would even say talk to him.
Ion
 
Hello Teyhan

I am saddened to read the terrible news, condolences to all the family, and hope it eases for all soon.

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

L
 
Of course you know not what to do - how could it be otherwise after such a heart-wrenching tragedy and loss?
I can only suggest that you do what you both always did, for that surely is what he would wish for, nothing more…..
My deepest condolences sir.
🦊🦊
 
He’s always going to be with you, he’ll never be forsaken.
He will still make you smile and laugh.
It’s not a time to break , but time to reflect on things you’d forgotten.

Positive thoughts and positive actions will reward your forever

Love is the only thing that matters and can’t ever end
 
I do not know what to do.

My son ( my avatar ) has died. He was 20 and was killed in a head on car collision.

After deer stalking for 30+ years I can barely bring myself to pick up a gun. It feels as though I have also lost a part of myself the trauma has been so great.
I understand, its nearly impossible to be the same person after losing a child my son was 22 killed in Afghanistan in 2011. All these years later we are not close to being the people we were. There will be many bad days ahead, then some better ones, and as time passes many more good days than bad. The bad can return at any moment for any reason. This is reality and normal. Best wishes sir and I am truly sorry for your loss.
 
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