Mistymoo, I do not think it is sarcasm. The trouble is land is becoming at a premium for stalking and is hard to come by and keep. Your post asking if any land was going was bound to raise such reactions.
You will find in general that if a more subtle approach had been made by your good self after being a member on here for a few months, you may well have had an invite. You will find that MANY on here have become good friends and have eventually landed in a syndicate or been invited out for free. You only have to look back through some of the million plus posts to see that.
I wish you well in your search, but my advice would be to go about it in a more indirect route, and form associations and friendships first. Even after 40 years of stalking I have never found land easy to come by, so you are not alone.
Good luck