Happy to be proved wrong by any physics teachers on here but I dont think your right.How fast the bullet accelerates has a big impact on recoil. A bullet of the same weight but a larger diameter is easier to accelerate in a given distance compared to a longer thinner bucket of the same weight. Usually a longer bullet (same weight but smaller diameter) will utilise a slower powder and lo ger barrel to achieve the same velocity meaning less felt recoil.
I did do physics A Level , got an A
P=MV
momentum = mass x velocity. so if both bullets weigh the same and are going the same speed terminally then the momentum/ recoil is the same
the only think that can sway this is the fact it is not happening in a vacuum so BC will come into effect but not be a compounding factor??
Ultimatley the calibre doesnt really matter so much , its all about keeping rifle weight up as much as possible and bullet weight down. Not worth getting too technical about it


