Making memories fishing with my boy

1st write up, not deer related I'm afraid but wanted to share a beautiful moment.


I've never been much of a fisherman, when I was a kid it was catching roach in silted up ponds, but I didn't have the patience to appreciate it. Mackerel fishing was always a blast and great memories were made but it was always more of a holiday activity. The last time I tried fishing was with a hobo line around a beer can for catfish in Colombia, I got sunburnt, dehydrated, eaten by mosquitos and didn't catch anything. Frankly I have no idea where to start.



I'm lucky enough to live near a beautiful chalk stream some of which flows through common land. Me and the 4 year old would often walk down by the stream and see people trying their luck.
After watching someone catch a little perch(I think), the boy says to me "daaaaaaad, can I have a go?" My boy loves the outdoors and if I indulge him In anything it's outdoor adventures. My reply was something like "son, dad doesn't know anything about fishing but let's give it a go , let me ask this gentlemen what we need to get started".
What we needed was a dip rod, pre tied line with hook, float and shot sinker. The gentleman as it happened even showed us basically how to present the bait and let it drift down the stream in a realistic manner without spooking the fish.

The next weekend we went to the local tackle shop to buy our kit and a landing net in case we were lucky. Christ on a bike! It was like the grand bazarr of gear and accessories who knew fishing could be so complicated. I just read off my shopping list to the man behind the counter who for around 30 quid gave us all we needed. With a tin of sweetcorn as bait because that's what I remember we started that afternoon. That evening we focused on getting the drift of the sweetcorn barbed hook at the right speed and depth after much trial and error got something that looked natural. The dip rod was in fairness to long for a four year old to hold steady without help and after a while splashing around with the landing net was more interesting.

The next day after nursery, I finished work early for the day picked him up and went straight to the stream. This time we had more luck. Drifting the sweetcorn off a weir we were getting nibbles in the turbulent water. With both of us holding the rod he could feel the gentle tugs transmitted as the fish took nibbles, the excitement built. As we replaced the nibbled corn with fresh, we got more nibbles but couldn't get the hook to set with a jerk of the rod. It was getting towards home time and for dinner, when finally we hooked something with a great tug and a splash we saw a silvery belly against the surface od a decent size fish again i think it was a perch, biggest one id seen caught in that river... and then it was gone. We tried a few more times but the commotion must have spooked everything, besides we were very late for dinner.
On the walk home my boys eyes were wide and bright with excitement. "Son do you know what your new nickname is... I'm calling you chispas (Spanish for sparks). The tales around dinner table for my wife and youngest admittedly had a fair bit of added bravado. We were becoming fishermen!

On the Thursday evening we started later. This time my father in law joined us. The conversation was in Spanish but great practice for my lad who was explaining to Papito all of his newfound knowledge. My father in law was walking down the bank looking for signs of fish and sceptical of our set up. We tried our previous spot but not even a nibble. "It's OK dad if at first you don't succeed try try try again". What can I say I'm a proud dad!
We changed tactic by walking further upstream as far as we could go, only about 20 metres. My son enthusiastically chucked in a handful of sweetcorn which we let drift down the stream shortly followed by our sweetcorn on the hook drifting about 5 cm beneath the surface. We took care holding the rod steady as we walked carefully keeping the sweetcorn in the current but just beneath the surface as we gradually approached the weir.

In the last meter before the weir we felt a large nibble and jerked the pole just in time. The pole bent and we had hooked something big, I was surprised at the power a fish in only about a foot of water could generate. As we had no reel we pulled him in bit by bit walking slowly backwards relaxing the tension and then increasing it. We could now see what we were dealing with, it was a HUGE BROWN TROUT! My son was amazed, "Papito, venga aqui, miracle este" (Papito come here, look at this). He jogged up and I passed my father in law the pole and saw a huge smile cross his face. I grabbed the landing net and started gently pulling in the line by hand feeling the fishes power subsided slightly as it tired. We netted the fish, still and whilst still in the water I wetted my hands and gently grasped the fish and removed the hook. We were astonished! This was the largest brown trout I had ever seen in the wild, and all caught on public land with a pole.rod and some sweetcorn. Passionate fly fishers must spend hundreds of pounds to catch something like this. After a few minutes letting the fish recover in the current we let it go.

As a prologue my father in law now wants to come fishing everything he visits and was busy phoning all his friends back home about the lethiathan we caught. I had to correct my sons nursery when I picked him up next, who told me he had a great imagination telling stories of the giant fish he caught with his dad and grandad - errrr he actually did all of this here's the picture.

I am so grateful to have shared this experience with my son and couldn't be more proud of him. I appreciate so much the experiences nature and the outdoors give us, these ave been passed down through the generations and I have now passed to my son. Now I'm hooked, but think the beautiful simplicity of tenkara fishing is for me. Does anyone else fish this style?

Thanks for reading and I hope the write up warms your heart just to the fraction it does mine.
 

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Tenkara, is a nice simple way of angling. You will probably progress to other methods as you get hooked (see what I did there..)
Angling is a great way to while away the hours and days, it's good for the soul, immerse yourself into it, it's hunting, just in a watery environment.
Good that you lit the fire in the little one :tiphat:
 
1st write up, not deer related I'm afraid but wanted to share a beautiful moment.


I've never been much of a fisherman, when I was a kid it was catching roach in silted up ponds, but I didn't have the patience to appreciate it. Mackerel fishing was always a blast and great memories were made but it was always more of a holiday activity. The last time I tried fishing was with a hobo line around a beer can for catfish in Colombia, I got sunburnt, dehydrated, eaten by mosquitos and didn't catch anything. Frankly I have no idea where to start.



I'm lucky enough to live near a beautiful chalk stream some of which flows through common land. Me and the 4 year old would often walk down by the stream and see people trying their luck.
After watching someone catch a little perch(I think), the boy says to me "daaaaaaad, can I have a go?" My boy loves the outdoors and if I indulge him In anything it's outdoor adventures. My reply was something like "son, dad doesn't know anything about fishing but let's give it a go , let me ask this gentlemen what we need to get started".
What we needed was a dip rod, pre tied line with hook, float and shot sinker. The gentleman as it happened even showed us basically how to present the bait and let it drift down the stream in a realistic manner without spooking the fish.

The next weekend we went to the local tackle shop to buy our kit and a landing net in case we were lucky. Christ on a bike! It was like the grand bazarr of gear and accessories who knew fishing could be so complicated. I just read off my shopping list to the man behind the counter who for around 30 quid gave us all we needed. With a tin of sweetcorn as bait because that's what I remember we started that afternoon. That evening we focused on getting the drift of the sweetcorn barbed hook at the right speed and depth after much trial and error got something that looked natural. The dip rod was in fairness to long for a four year old to hold steady without help and after a while splashing around with the landing net was more interesting.

The next day after nursery, I finished work early for the day picked him up and went straight to the stream. This time we had more luck. Drifting the sweetcorn off a weir we were getting nibbles in the turbulent water. With both of us holding the rod he could feel the gentle tugs transmitted as the fish took nibbles, the excitement built. As we replaced the nibbled corn with fresh, we got more nibbles but couldn't get the hook to set with a jerk of the rod. It was getting towards home time and for dinner, when finally we hooked something with a great tug and a splash we saw a silvery belly against the surface od a decent size fish again i think it was a perch, biggest one id seen caught in that river... and then it was gone. We tried a few more times but the commotion must have spooked everything, besides we were very late for dinner.
On the walk home my boys eyes were wide and bright with excitement. "Son do you know what your new nickname is... I'm calling you chispas (Spanish for sparks). The tales around dinner table for my wife and youngest admittedly had a fair bit of added bravado. We were becoming fishermen!

On the Thursday evening we started later. This time my father in law joined us. The conversation was in Spanish but great practice for my lad who was explaining to Papito all of his newfound knowledge. My father in law was walking down the bank looking for signs of fish and sceptical of our set up. We tried our previous spot but not even a nibble. "It's OK dad if at first you don't succeed try try try again". What can I say I'm a proud dad!
We changed tactic by walking further upstream as far as we could go, only about 20 metres. My son enthusiastically chucked in a handful of sweetcorn which we let drift down the stream shortly followed by our sweetcorn on the hook drifting about 5 cm beneath the surface. We took care holding the rod steady as we walked carefully keeping the sweetcorn in the current but just beneath the surface as we gradually approached the weir.

In the last meter before the weir we felt a large nibble and jerked the pole just in time. The pole bent and we had hooked something big, I was surprised at the power a fish in only about a foot of water could generate. As we had no reel we pulled him in bit by bit walking slowly backwards relaxing the tension and then increasing it. We could now see what we were dealing with, it was a HUGE BROWN TROUT! My son was amazed, "Papito, venga aqui, miracle este" (Papito come here, look at this). He jogged up and I passed my father in law the pole and saw a huge smile cross his face. I grabbed the landing net and started gently pulling in the line by hand feeling the fishes power subsided slightly as it tired. We netted the fish, still and whilst still in the water I wetted my hands and gently grasped the fish and removed the hook. We were astonished! This was the largest brown trout I had ever seen in the wild, and all caught on public land with a pole.rod and some sweetcorn. Passionate fly fishers must spend hundreds of pounds to catch something like this. After a few minutes letting the fish recover in the current we let it go.

As a prologue my father in law now wants to come fishing everything he visits and was busy phoning all his friends back home about the lethiathan we caught. I had to correct my sons nursery when I picked him up next, who told me he had a great imagination telling stories of the giant fish he caught with his dad and grandad - errrr he actually did all of this here's the picture.

I am so grateful to have shared this experience with my son and couldn't be more proud of him. I appreciate so much the experiences nature and the outdoors give us, these ave been passed down through the generations and I have now passed to my son. Now I'm hooked, but think the beautiful simplicity of tenkara fishing is for me. Does anyone else fish this style?

Thanks for reading and I hope the write up warms your heart just to the fraction it does mine.
What a lovely write up.

Keep them coming 👍
 
That's similar to how it all started with me. My dad took me out at a similar age on a wee burn in Galloway to hunt down some "monster" trout and herling with a cheap rod and reel set up and a couple of worms on the hook. Sixty odd years later, still fishing as well as shooting.....brilliant!
 
Epic - great to see👍

Will never forget the first fishing trip with my eldest son - did a bit of prep, right place, bait and weather to give us a chance to try and get him hooked.

Luck was on our side as after two hours and after over a dozen carp banked, some of which double figured, he turned to me and said “dad, can we go home now -I’m bored of catching fish”. 😱

Was almost 10 years ago and he loves his fishing - still rib him about it whenever we go😆
 
Lovely story. I also suffer from the disconnect between my 3 year olds life at home and nursery. Recently I was told he had a great imagination as he had been making up stories about deer foot prints. I asked what he'd said ..... turns out he'd been explaining the differences between fallow and roe slots that he had found and shown the teacher while out on a walk. I was delighted to tell them that it wasn't his imagination but that he was actually teaching them about tracks. They were suitably gobsmacked and I was very proud.

It was a much better moment than when he told them all the deer were upside down in the chiller with their heads and feet in a yellow bucket. This was also true but didnt please the vegan nursery lady.
 
Great write up, just like you I bought a cheap pole (far easier than a rod for a 4 year old) and brought my son fishing, he’s caught a couple of roach and is interested in it for an hour or so. I’ve taken him stalking too, let my pal take a shot and we then walked in to recover the carcass, all very exciting for a boy that age. We had some fallow at the edge of my garden this week, his mother was delighted to see them, his comment was “when’s daddy going to shoot them?” :)

My father isn’t an angler or hunter, but I recall trips to rugby matches, foie gras farms, bull fights and foraging for mushrooms/shellfish. All great memories and development for a young man.
 
Tenkara, is a nice simple way of angling. You will probably progress to other methods as you get hooked (see what I did there..)
Angling is a great way to while away the hours and days, it's good for the soul, immerse yourself into it, it's hunting, just in a watery environment.
Good that you lit the fire in the little one :tiphat:
For me simple is good, what also attracts me to Tenkara is the portability, for not a lot of weight or space a rod, a few flies or lures, impromptu fishing can be added to any adventure. Any other advice you have is always welcome. Every day is a school day!
 
Lovely!
A day never to be forgotten!
Why didn't you eat the trout though?
I was very tempted, but it is a very public spot (outside a pub) enjoyed by lots of people. also lots of teenagers enjoying the fishing as well,I didn't want to set a bad precedent. I would love to think others can experience something similar in future and would.also return such a fine specimen!
 
Hello, Lovely post, You lucky to have a trout stream with free fishing , Are you allowed to fly fish ??, Wish there was a trout river near me .
I'm very lucky to have this opportunity near me. Granted the bit of stream I can access is very public. All the other stretches are permissions for local trout fishing clubs which are very exclusive and cliquey. Takes away a bit from the carefree experience I think!
 
Great write up, just like you I bought a cheap pole (far easier than a rod for a 4 year old) and brought my son fishing, he’s caught a couple of roach and is interested in it for an hour or so. I’ve taken him stalking too, let my pal take a shot and we then walked in to recover the carcass, all very exciting for a boy that age. We had some fallow at the edge of my garden this week, his mother was delighted to see them, his comment was “when’s daddy going to shoot them?” :)

My father isn’t an angler or hunter, but I recall trips to rugby matches, foie gras farms, bull fights and foraging for mushrooms/shellfish. All great memories and development for a young man.
Exactly my thoughts, these experiences are so important to share across the generations and there is a magic to passing the torch as our ancestors have done. Writing it up is my "cave painting" . My goal is to have a stack of experiences like you mentioned in a folder to add to and eventually pass on. Next I hope will be a walk with the air rifle, hopefully a catch and cook.
 
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