It's because you've got a "cold roof", ie. your insulation is on top of the ceiling joists not between the rafters, and your bituminous felt is non-breathable.
Warm moist air rises through the ceiling insulation in your loft (insulation only slows down heat loss, it doesn't stop it), hits the icy cold and completely impermeable bitumin felt, condenses into water droplets and runs down the felt, often dripping off onto the mineral wool which becomes damp and causes mildew on the underside of the ceiling below, or it runs all the way down the felt, and if your lucky, drops onto the soffit where the felt meets the fascia board and is vented away - if you have sufficient venting in your soffit.
this is why it is vital when fitting above ceiling mineral wool insulation that you leave a small gap at the eaves so the wool cannot come into contact with the underside of the felt. If it does the wool will become damp from condensation running down the felt and you end up with terrible mildew in the room below at the junction of wall and ceiling.
Ideally, all roofs should use breathable membrane under the battens rather than felt, and they should be insulated between the rafters with PIR (Selotex etc) foam board - a "warm roof" - rather than just mineral wool between on top of the ceiling joists. That way, there is no cold surface on the roof slope for the moist air to condense on.
If this is done with breathable membrane and counter battening and a small gap is left in the insulation at ridge and eaves, you can use tile/slate vents and all moisture will vent through the roof.
In an ideal world you'd re-roof your house using breathable sarking membrane and fit insualtion between the rafters while the roof is open. That way your loft will have the same climate as the rest of the house with no cold surfaces and the moisture can escape without condensing.
As it is, your best bet is to push PIR insulation board between your rafters and make sure you have plenty of airflow with a couple of 9" air bricks in the gable ends and well vented soffits. There is no point using vent tiles/slates with impermeable bitumen felt or plastic. It won't be as good as a re0roof with breathable membrane but it should cure your damp problems.