I hate this type of post (but glad you’ve had a positive response from buchan).
Perhaps I’m lucky, but I trust my vets implicitly, I know the practice owner as a personal friend, and if they say xyz I listen to them without question. They don’t sugar the pill when the truth needs to be said, and I respect them for it.
I have seen first hand the culture of “how much is he/she insured for” and miraculously a bill for the exact figure appears and somehow the dogs treatment fitted perfectly into that timeframe (this is with referrals not our actual vet) but never with our own vets.
I value the trust in that relationship and it saddens me others feel the need to question, I would never want to feel that our dogs care was dictated by financial gain.
(This is not a dig
@Kjf just an acknowledgement of how lucky/privileged I feel, and I wish you were able to have the same trust).