I’m blown away by all the kind words, genuinely. I’m not one to talk to people about my problems, let alone to strangers, but this really is something that needs shouting about!
If you have sons, daughters, friends, colleagues, whoever please tell them cancer isn’t the preserve of people past a certain age! There’s 3 of us that all went to school together, 1 has died from it and 2 of us are still here but living with cancer!
My symptoms that ignored were as follows:
Unexplained weight loss - I didn’t realise at the time as I was running and training a lot, but I got strangely thin!
Loss of appetite - I was eating 1 meal a day when working physically demanding 12hr shifts.
Mood/personality changes - I was irritable and just a bit of a nightmare to be around at times which just wasn’t me. I’m a laid back and easy going bloke.
Night sweats - I would wake up in the night and be dripping in sweat lying on a bedsheet that was soaking wet like it had just come out the wash!
Tiredness - On my days off, I’d not be getting out of bed until around lunchtime and still feel exhausted.
A change in life circumstances seemed to halt a lot of these symptoms and I associated most of them with a pretty rubbish period of my life. A nasty relationship breakdown and a death in the family (ironically from cancer) could bring on any of the above!
I then started to gain weight in despite not changing my diet or exercise habits. Turns out that this was the point at which the tumour had begun to really develop and it was my body preparing itself for illness.
Then the bleeding started, initially not much, but then as the months went on it became dark old blood as well as fresh red blood. Then came crippling stomach cramps and a constant need to go to the toilet! I put up with this for around 5-6 months before actually going to the doctors!
This is just a rough idea of the symptoms I had. According to the doctors, night sweats are a massive indicator of the possibility of a cancer.