Earning your crust


My buddy and I as a team, neither of us was run over by the 65 ton beast and we ended up with it parked where we needed it. We usually only had 3 or 4 a week to deal with so hardly rushed off our feet. The rest of the time we were dogsbody assistants to the MT section vehicle techs, armourer and Air Traffic. Salalah, Oman, 1976 - 1977.
 
Ok, currently:

Owner & Director of a construction consultancy, myself and my guys specialising in Clerk of Works (building fabric and M&E) and expert witness.

Owner and Co-Director of and educational guardianship company, providing legal guardianship to overseas kids at independent boarding schools in the South West (help the wife, basically).

Treasurer and co-founder of our (wife and I) charity which we launched this year. We buy new school uniform for kids whose parents are in financial difficulty / in-work poverty etc. It’s been a very busy year so far...
 
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Respect to you and your good lady for performing this role. I know what it is like to not have the "right" clothing when at school, it was an issue even 50+ years ago. :(
Thank you fella. I had a contract between end 2016-beginning 2019 for the Department of Education, where they were surveying all of the state schools, academy’s, trust etc in England. We worked on the mechanical and electrical surveys in 6 counties, which meant interaction with your archetypal small primary school caretakers to facilities teams on the larger establishments. In that time, I was struck by how the whole system is barely hanging by a thread, caretakers that would be mending / re-soling kids shoes, staff chipping-in for winter coats for kids and, then there was the one in Stroud that did for me....

Just before Christmas 2018 I was surveying a mid-size Primary. In one of the classrooms was maybe 2 dozen boxes with food, Christmas presents and decorations. Says I to the head ‘have you done a collection for the homeless or to send overseas?’ She replied ‘No, a number of parents at the school have fundraised and put together these Christmas boxes for other families at the school, because they know there are some that will struggle to get things for them and their kids this year’

So I’m floored - I’ve lived a bit too long in a middle-class bubble and something like this has just slapped me across the face with a good dose of ‘this is happening everywhere, under your nose sunshine’.

I’ve known difficult times, especially when I was younger and then again when my kids were very small and the second time round going through the meat-grinder of redundancy put us right up against it - we could just about afford to get by - but we never moaned about it and never asked for anything. The last ten years has been hard work and it’s paid off business wise but I’ve forgotten maybe where I came from a bit, and how hard it can be to raise a family - and also how hard it can be to admit you need a bit of help.

Both my wife and I had mothers who nursed children and we decided to do this in their memory. My mum passed away in 2018 and, after all the vultures had left and fees were paid, there was just enough left for us to put it in an account to prove we were serious and to get our charity registration number enabling us to be taken seriously.

Schools and other charities refer kids to us, we get the uniform and they get to choose and be fitted with proper Clark’s shoes and they get delivered to the family. We don’t meet them and we want it that way - everyone keeps their dignity and the kids get to feel like everyone else at school, something that’s so important at a young age and as you mentioned, has and always will be there if you ‘stand out’ from the crowd.

We ain’t no saints but it’s some of the most worthwhile work I have ever done. Since we started in earnest in April this year we’ve helped just over 100 kids - it’s been a little overwhelming at times but worth it :thumb:
 
Thank you fella. I had a contract between end 2016-beginning 2019 for the Department of Education, where they were surveying all of the state schools, academy’s, trust etc in England. We worked on the mechanical and electrical surveys in 6 counties, which meant interaction with your archetypal small primary school caretakers to facilities teams on the larger establishments. In that time, I was struck by how the whole system is barely hanging by a thread, caretakers that would be mending / re-soling kids shoes, staff chipping-in for winter coats for kids and, then there was the one in Stroud that did for me....

Just before Christmas 2018 I was surveying a mid-size Primary. In one of the classrooms was maybe 2 dozen boxes with food, Christmas presents and decorations. Says I to the head ‘have you done a collection for the homeless or to send overseas?’ She replied ‘No, a number of parents at the school have fundraised and put together these Christmas boxes for other families at the school, because they know there are some that will struggle to get things for them and their kids this year’

So I’m floored - I’ve lived a bit too long in a middle-class bubble and something like this has just slapped me across the face with a good dose of ‘this is happening everywhere, under your nose sunshine’.

I’ve known difficult times, especially when I was younger and then again when my kids were very small and the second time round going through the meat-grinder of redundancy put us right up against it - we could just about afford to get by - but we never moaned about it and never asked for anything. The last ten years has been hard work and it’s paid off business wise but I’ve forgotten maybe where I came from a bit, and how hard it can be to raise a family - and also how hard it can be to admit you need a bit of help.

Both my wife and I had mothers who nursed children and we decided to do this in their memory. My mum passed away in 2018 and, after all the vultures had left and fees were paid, there was just enough left for us to put it in an account to prove we were serious and to get our charity registration number enabling us to be taken seriously.

Schools and other charities refer kids to us, we get the uniform and they get to choose and be fitted with proper Clark’s shoes and they get delivered to the family. We don’t meet them and we want it that way - everyone keeps their dignity and the kids get to feel like everyone else at school, something that’s so important at a young age and as you mentioned, has and always will be there if you ‘stand out’ from the crowd.

We ain’t no saints but it’s some of the most worthwhile work I have ever done. Since we started in earnest in April this year we’ve helped just over 100 kids - it’s been a little overwhelming at times but worth it :thumb:


That is exceptional, I raise my hat to you and your good lady. When Sky TV is bombarding us several times an hour with charities begging for Africans in various degrees of distress it is easy to be isolated from what is happening a few miles down the road in our own country.
 
Indeed so. 1/4" of Perspex does not offer much protection from night fighter cannon shells. Respect to them, they had courage.
My grandfather used to make the wooden moulds for the gun turret Perspex at Parnell Aircraft in Surbiton during the war, had to work in a temperature / humidity controlled room, froze in summer and cooked in the winter he said
 
Thank you fella. I had a contract between end 2016-beginning 2019 for the Department of Education, where they were surveying all of the state schools, academy’s, trust etc in England. We worked on the mechanical and electrical surveys in 6 counties, which meant interaction with your archetypal small primary school caretakers to facilities teams on the larger establishments. In that time, I was struck by how the whole system is barely hanging by a thread, caretakers that would be mending / re-soling kids shoes, staff chipping-in for winter coats for kids and, then there was the one in Stroud that did for me....

Just before Christmas 2018 I was surveying a mid-size Primary. In one of the classrooms was maybe 2 dozen boxes with food, Christmas presents and decorations. Says I to the head ‘have you done a collection for the homeless or to send overseas?’ She replied ‘No, a number of parents at the school have fundraised and put together these Christmas boxes for other families at the school, because they know there are some that will struggle to get things for them and their kids this year’

So I’m floored - I’ve lived a bit too long in a middle-class bubble and something like this has just slapped me across the face with a good dose of ‘this is happening everywhere, under your nose sunshine’.

I’ve known difficult times, especially when I was younger and then again when my kids were very small and the second time round going through the meat-grinder of redundancy put us right up against it - we could just about afford to get by - but we never moaned about it and never asked for anything. The last ten years has been hard work and it’s paid off business wise but I’ve forgotten maybe where I came from a bit, and how hard it can be to raise a family - and also how hard it can be to admit you need a bit of help.

Both my wife and I had mothers who nursed children and we decided to do this in their memory. My mum passed away in 2018 and, after all the vultures had left and fees were paid, there was just enough left for us to put it in an account to prove we were serious and to get our charity registration number enabling us to be taken seriously.

Schools and other charities refer kids to us, we get the uniform and they get to choose and be fitted with proper Clark’s shoes and they get delivered to the family. We don’t meet them and we want it that way - everyone keeps their dignity and the kids get to feel like everyone else at school, something that’s so important at a young age and as you mentioned, has and always will be there if you ‘stand out’ from the crowd.

We ain’t no saints but it’s some of the most worthwhile work I have ever done. Since we started in earnest in April this year we’ve helped just over 100 kids - it’s been a little overwhelming at times but worth it :thumb:
That's a magnificent thing your doing there Hereford, why don't you post your charity details on here and you may get a few donations to help you along a little.
 
That's a magnificent thing your doing there Hereford, why don't you post your charity details on here and you may get a few donations to help you along a little.
Thanks Jer - we're in the process of writing funding bids at the moment but I'm also looking at setting up a Virgin Money Giving account so we can have a donate button on our website - when I've done that (and ok'd it with the SD owners) I'll post the details. I should add, we are only working in the BANES area at the moment (Bath and North East Somerset) - plenty of need but as we grow we'll branch out.

Apologies all for a massive thread hijack :tiphat:
 
Thanks Jer - we're in the process of writing funding bids at the moment but I'm also looking at setting up a Virgin Money Giving account so we can have a donate button on our website - when I've done that (and ok'd it with the SD owners) I'll post the details. I should add, we are only working in the BANES area at the moment (Bath and North East Somerset) - plenty of need but as we grow we'll branch out.

Apologies all for a massive thread hijack :tiphat:
Hereford what an amazing thing to do. Don’t apologise for a thread hijack!
Keep us informed when the giving button works!

Cheers
 
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