Thank you fella. I had a contract between end 2016-beginning 2019 for the Department of Education, where they were surveying all of the state schools, academy’s, trust etc in England. We worked on the mechanical and electrical surveys in 6 counties, which meant interaction with your archetypal small primary school caretakers to facilities teams on the larger establishments. In that time, I was struck by how the whole system is barely hanging by a thread, caretakers that would be mending / re-soling kids shoes, staff chipping-in for winter coats for kids and, then there was the one in Stroud that did for me....
Just before Christmas 2018 I was surveying a mid-size Primary. In one of the classrooms was maybe 2 dozen boxes with food, Christmas presents and decorations. Says I to the head ‘have you done a collection for the homeless or to send overseas?’ She replied ‘No, a number of parents at the school have fundraised and put together these Christmas boxes for other families at the school, because they know there are some that will struggle to get things for them and their kids this year’
So I’m floored - I’ve lived a bit too long in a middle-class bubble and something like this has just slapped me across the face with a good dose of ‘this is happening everywhere, under your nose sunshine’.
I’ve known difficult times, especially when I was younger and then again when my kids were very small and the second time round going through the meat-grinder of redundancy put us right up against it - we could just about afford to get by - but we never moaned about it and never asked for anything. The last ten years has been hard work and it’s paid off business wise but I’ve forgotten maybe where I came from a bit, and how hard it can be to raise a family - and also how hard it can be to admit you need a bit of help.
Both my wife and I had mothers who nursed children and we decided to do this in their memory. My mum passed away in 2018 and, after all the vultures had left and fees were paid, there was just enough left for us to put it in an account to prove we were serious and to get our charity registration number enabling us to be taken seriously.
Schools and other charities refer kids to us, we get the uniform and they get to choose and be fitted with proper Clark’s shoes and they get delivered to the family. We don’t meet them and we want it that way - everyone keeps their dignity and the kids get to feel like everyone else at school, something that’s so important at a young age and as you mentioned, has and always will be there if you ‘stand out’ from the crowd.
We ain’t no saints but it’s some of the most worthwhile work I have ever done. Since we started in earnest in April this year we’ve helped just over 100 kids - it’s been a little overwhelming at times but worth it