First Date Advice Needed!!!
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seibassman
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you need to smile, listen, ask her questions and let her do most of the talking. That way you come across as interested in her rather than interested in yourself only. Pay attention to her answers and ask extra questions about her answers.
Do not aim to be out for hours and hours, better to have a good shorter time together and arrange another date than string it out, unless of course the conversation just flows. Maybe spend a couple of minutes before you meet thinking up topics to talk about so that there are no awkward silences. Good luck Matthew
Good luck
Do not aim to be out for hours and hours, better to have a good shorter time together and arrange another date than string it out, unless of course the conversation just flows. Maybe spend a couple of minutes before you meet thinking up topics to talk about so that there are no awkward silences. Good luck Matthew
Good luck
Mark 1
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Feck me ,
Ever thought about taking up marrige guidance pal
.sorry could'nt resist that ,just tell her your into stalking pal but don't mention deer that should do the trick.
Remind's me on wednesday had to go the local nick to collect 2 firearm's and 2 shotgun's for storage as the local village idiot has said 1 too many word's out of turn.
The face on the civilan desk girl was a picture when just at the point i was handed the weopans i just mentioned I was into stalking.
Priceless.
Mark
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baguio
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Works wonders providing she drinks all the lager and you stay on soft drinks all night anyway!
I have been out of the active dating scene for 30+ years (after 27 years of wedded bliss) and know how awkward it can be. When I have been out on a date recently, I figure if I was the one inviting the lady out, I am obligated to pay. Probably old fashion but that's just me. One time a lady Doc I work with asked me out and I made her pay by the same reasoning. She loved it.~Muir
12 to 15 pints of Larger,1 kebab and a taxi back to her place.Works wonders,fool proof.Lol
Atb John
Isn't twelve to fifteen pints the difference between a dog and a fox?
(Like the advice about telling her you remembered the ankle bracelet by the way)
ths84
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All I will say is pay unless she insists and stay away from your stalking unless she brings it up. Don't stare at her boobs unless she is looking away lol or wearing a low cut top (asking for it) make eye contact and if she shows interest in a certain topic run with it if you know what you are talking about, lean forward in to the conversation. If she deviates on to previous boyfriends and problems they caused just come across as concerned and drop little lines like "what an arse" and "I cant believe he did that" to which she will continue on down that route with you thinking cheers love I know what not to do know, its like cheating for an exam and you will seem to her to be the sensitive type who actually gives a crap about her feelings etc etc.
Keep off the booze after the first one as you need your clear head and A game to not sound boring if you get a moment to open your mouth. Do not go to the toilet in the middle of a conversation even if it means potentially damaging your bladder for future use as it is noted. Do not think for one second you can get away with dropping a cheeky one, wait for said toilet break and let it all out and then give it 30 seconds after as you don't want to be dragging that out with you. Wash your hands after use and be careful of splash back from urinals, if possible stick to toilets to avoid these problems!
Smart casual is the way forward, make sure its a good food place do not go swimming in aftershave as she might not like it so just a little dab by the ears and jawline. Following morning drop her a text saying "thanks for the nice night out" with something like "im still laughing about XYZ" but don't put anything asking about when you are hoping to meet next as you save that for a few days after.
Failing all of the above get on plentyoffish and pick up some tramps!
Keep off the booze after the first one as you need your clear head and A game to not sound boring if you get a moment to open your mouth. Do not go to the toilet in the middle of a conversation even if it means potentially damaging your bladder for future use as it is noted. Do not think for one second you can get away with dropping a cheeky one, wait for said toilet break and let it all out and then give it 30 seconds after as you don't want to be dragging that out with you. Wash your hands after use and be careful of splash back from urinals, if possible stick to toilets to avoid these problems!
Smart casual is the way forward, make sure its a good food place do not go swimming in aftershave as she might not like it so just a little dab by the ears and jawline. Following morning drop her a text saying "thanks for the nice night out" with something like "im still laughing about XYZ" but don't put anything asking about when you are hoping to meet next as you save that for a few days after.
Failing all of the above get on plentyoffish and pick up some tramps!
EMcC
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Richard Parsons
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My name aint Fred Flintstone but I can sure make your bed rock.....I dare you.
digger9523
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My name aint Fred Flintstone but I can sure make your bed rock.....I dare you.
Or, "That's a lovely dress, it'll look fantastic on my bedroom floor...."
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