Joseph Jerome Zahn, RIP

Sidewinder

Well-Known Member
Dear Friends:

On 6 October 2017, my father Joseph J. Zahn lost his 4-month battle with lung cancer.

I arrived in Virginia expecting to take him for treatment at the University of Virginia Cancer Center in Charlottesville. The doctors did everything they could to treat him, but unfortunately the cancer was too aggressive and we decided to go home. He suffered severely. I never left his bedside; he died a week later.

Last weekend, we celebrated the life of Joe Zahn. He was buried with full military honors and the American Legion from Bedford County presented the flag. I did the eulogy. This was a celebration of the simple man, who not only loved his country and family, but towards the end of his life put the Bible and Jesus Christ first in every aspect of his life.

Yesterday we buried the greatest generation, but today we begin to bury the silent generation. Joe Zahn was the embodiment of this. He was a simple man who served his country like many others. He was called back for another tour and unfortunately became disabled. He worked for years as a construction worker on New York’s tallest sky scrapers and he never complained about his disability.

Over the past month my experience in Virginia was nothing but profound. At UVA, I witnessed doctors and nurses from many different backgrounds pushing the outer envelope of medical technology, united by endless determination to eradicate cancer. They are rock stars who defined Awesome. At the Baptist churches in Charlottesville and Rocky Mount, strangers stepped up to plate selflessly to support my mother. Finally, must I not forget the countless numbers of veterans who came to a memorial service to celebrate another brother and console a wife who loved him dearly for over 60 years. It was an experience of American Kindness to the fullest.

In Dad’s old ‘55 Ford gas guzzler, I took a final drive on his favorite road, the Blue Ridge Parkway overlooking the beautiful Shenandoah Valley. The temperature has finally dropped, the fall foliage has past its peak, and the deer have disappeared as usual. I lit a Havana and put the dial to his favorite AM station. This is what he wanted and I know he is in a better place. The memories hit and the tears finally come. Thank you Papa; we will miss you dearly!

I return to London next week with my mother who will begin a new life in the UK. Like my father on the battlefield, I could not leave her behind to die of a broken heart. Welcome her, England!

With Love and Kindness,

Glenn

Semper Paratus!


“Precious in the sight of the LORD is the death of his faithful servants.”
Psalm 116:15
 
You have my deepest sympathy Glenn ,lost dad 5 years ago to a vicious cancer tumour that took my best friend in less than 12 weeks.Memories are precious ,his favourite hotel in Spain 2 to 3 stays a year in better times ,his favourite single malt Balvenie double barrel,his love of King Edward cigars .And most of all his pride of being Scottish .
Hope you mum loves Britain a new start for her and a feeling of safety for you knowing she,s no longer 3000 miles away ,my mum is now only 500 yards away and it,s reassuring to be able to walk to see her atb
 
God rest his soul, It is always a terrible ordeal when parents leave us. Lord bless your Mum and may she be happy in this great country.
 
You have the sincerest condolences of all Admin and I am sure, members of the site. I wish you and your family all the best for the future and I hope your mother enjoys England.

John
 
Jeez you've just fetched a lump to my throat sir, condolences for your loss and a big welcome to your mum.
Hope she settles in quickly and has many happy years here.
Jimmy
 
God bless you and your old mum my friend. A great tribute. My heartfelt condolences for your loss. My old man died in my arms 18 years ago. He too was an old soldier having served in WW2. Like your dad he closed his eyes in this life to meet the Creator he loved in the next.
 
Hi Glenn

Sorry to read your post - those of us who have lost a parent know what you and the family are going through.
Hope it settles and the pain eases for all soon.

Having Mother near you will help you both overcome.

L
 
I am in the fortunate position of having both parents still alive and kicking but slowly settling into their extremely elder years, what makes it hard is I am here and they are over the water so popping over to see them at the weekend is, not easy to say the least.
Funny enough on my way home tonight from deer stalking I remembered a time on a beach sitting on my dads shoulders with the waves crashing over us and him laughing. I was probably crying as it was cold. He is more likely to sit on my shoulders now. Lol. How times change.
i hope he had a good life and was proud of you.

My condolences and I hope your mother settles in over here.
 
That was a beautifully written and quite moving reflection on your father's lofe, his last days and the role you played as son and now guardian of your poor greiving mum. I am delighted to hear that your Mum is able to join you in England and I wish you all happy at times in the months ahead. All the best, Dave.
 
Jeez you've just fetched a lump to my throat sir, condolences for your loss and a big welcome to your mum.
Hope she settles in quickly and has many happy years here.
Jimmy
Please add my name to this reply, like JM reading it brought a tear to my eye, and fond memories of my father who, like other members of SD had their first hunting memories with their "best shot in the world dad!!"

RIP to your dad Glenn

Patrick
 
That's a touching eulogy, Sidewinder. I know Bedford, Virginia, with its military history, gave him the send off he deserved. More importantly, it sounds like you had a great relationship with him.
 
Prayer from a fellow soldier and Christian, another great man gone to accept his reward. My condolences to your mum, yourself and all others in your family. May your father rest in peace.
 
Losing a Dad is one of the most life defining moments. You are a true son for your vigil at his bedside - a hard thing for you to do.
Your Mum is a welcome new resident, make sure you let her know she has earned her place here.
 
You have the sincerest condolences of all Admin and I am sure, members of the site. I wish you and your family all the best for the future and I hope your mother enjoys England.

John

I can only echo what my colleague has already written. I am sorry for your loss.
 
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