Stalking Solo vs. With a Friend – Which Do You Prefer and Why?

Everyone knows that stalking isn’t the best place for a chat—but that’s part of what makes it so rewarding with good mates. You can read everything they’re thinking without a word being spoken. A glance, a shift in posture, a raised eyebrow—it’s all there in the body language. That silent understanding adds a whole other layer to the experience.

I’ve always preferred stalking with a friend. For me, it’s as much a social experience as it is a sporting one. I do head out solo from time to time, and there are definite advantages—less noise, fewer variables, and a simpler approach overall. But the real value, for me, lies in sharing those moments: the stories, the shots, the laughs, and yes, the drag at the end of the day.

I’m also fortunate that most of the stalking I do is recreational, so I’m not under pressure to hit cull numbers or chase results. That freedom allows me to sit back, relax, and enjoy stalking for what it truly is—a chance to immerse myself in the landscape, observe wildlife, and create lasting memories.

There’s something about building those memories with mates that outweighs the occasional missed opportunity. Whether it’s a textbook stalk or a day full of near misses, having someone alongside makes it all the more worthwhile.
That is interesting, as it's totally opposite to my feelings.
One of the things that I find so attractive about stalking is that it's largely a solitary activity, pleasantly devoid of the "groupie" mentality that seems to affect other types of shooting sports (such as driven game) and which I find extremely irritating.
 
I used to in younger days prefer solo stalking, particularly where a cull was part of my job. Taking guests out was mainly enjoyable, particularly the ladies, but the odd a..e could spoil it. Having now got to a state where I need help to extract and larder I quite enjoy watching others stalk and sitting in a high seat reminiscing.
 
Everyone knows that stalking isn’t the best place for a chat—but that’s part of what makes it so rewarding with good mates. You can read everything they’re thinking without a word being spoken. A glance, a shift in posture, a raised eyebrow—it’s all there in the body language. That silent understanding adds a whole other layer to the experience.

I’ve always preferred stalking with a friend. For me, it’s as much a social experience as it is a sporting one. I do head out solo from time to time, and there are definite advantages—less noise, fewer variables, and a simpler approach overall. But the real value, for me, lies in sharing those moments: the stories, the shots, the laughs, and yes, the drag at the end of the day.

I’m also fortunate that most of the stalking I do is recreational, so I’m not under pressure to hit cull numbers or chase results. That freedom allows me to sit back, relax, and enjoy stalking for what it truly is—a chance to immerse myself in the landscape, observe wildlife, and create lasting memories.

There’s something about building those memories with mates that outweighs the occasional missed opportunity. Whether it’s a textbook stalk or a day full of near misses, having someone alongside makes it all the more worthwhile.
Chat=deer clearing off to at least the neighbouring estate or somewhere more distant!
 
I certainly have more success solo, and love the peace and quiet.

I do occasionally stalk with someone though, although we now take a wood each and just text eachother when done. He's also been given permission by the land owner so we must work together.

Just picked up another small permission though. That one will just be me. Not big enough for two.
 
I enjoy both and savour the moment of being out, whether we pull a trigger or not. I moved areas so from having lots of access to very limited here in Devon, but I hope that will improve over time as I get to know people. I’m grateful for what I have, as I know how quickly it might be gone, for a whole variety of reasons beyond my control. I’d be happy to watch and drag for someone, just for the time out.
 
Much prefer solo given the my job has me interacting with groups of people almost constantly. Nothing I've found settles the jumbled thoughts and priorities like solo hunting.
 
solo, but...

Having a mate stalking the other end of the wood is hand if you shoot a buck...or pricket at the other end of some clear fell (thanks G!)

also like taking novices out now and then.

the other pro is I can swear freely at my dog if I am on my own! the down side is there is no one then to see how amazing my dog is If they are on form,
 
I fowled solo for fifty years, and now I stalk solo - 20 years. Just me and the hound. I am a widower so I also live alone. It's not a problem, and I don't want to change it.
I'm not against people, it’s just that I prefer the solo lifestyle. I was very happily married, but she was a loner at heart as well, so we gave each other lots of space.
 
Took a friend out yesterday after fallow. He hasn't stalked since having regular success on reds with me in the 90's.
Several observations
He's still a good stalker
Bucks were scarce. I saw a taker that he couldn't see.
He carried the rifle, I didn't miss the weight!
AND despite a lifetime in construction he isn't deaf!!
I have started two friends in stalking, and got a good few others their first red / sika / fallow.
That said most days it's just me and the dog.
 
There's something very rewarding stalking with a friend,sharing not just the success,but the experience too.
 
I like both, but if I had to choose one, I'd say solo just edges it. On my own, I find I've got a different mindset and generally find that I can be a bit more successful (at least in finding deer, if not actually shooting one), however the land I shoot over belongs to a friend of mine who I don't see as often as I used to and an early morning stalk sometimes ends up turning into a nice walk and a chat, followed by a bacon sarnie and coffee when we get back - which is still great but not always as productive as we could do to be.
 
I used to always stalk alone and loved it but now I enjoy both.

I have stalked with my stalking buddy for the past 10 years and its good craic and not lonely.

But I still get out solo as well.

I enjoy finding the deer for my mate and also enjoy watching him shoot them.

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Now that’s a good question... I’ve found that I enjoy the company of friends when stalking so have been organising outings with guys of a similar outlook, it works well, we draw lots for the seats and share both the Venison and the work... in fact the work parties are just as enjoyable, meetup and finish the outings at my place for coffee and a tipple.

Willowbank
 
I love stalking solo. Once the mornings and evenings get darker my wife enjoys the stroll along one permission beyond that once that alarm clock is set I’m on my own
 
A good friend and myself have been out quite a few times this year, great for me as he has a lifetime of knowledge and is a great laugh when stalking too.
I also have enjoyed taking people out recently, Had a few first timers this year. One got a bronze malform Roe buck, great to see how happy they were with the day and it gets more people accepting of Deer Stalking.
Going out soon to get some Red stags and taking a friend for his first stag. He had his first Roe buck with me in June. He is really keen and getting into stalking well.

That said, I also went up to a friends ground recently where he took me on his grounds and had one of the best days Stalking I've had for me in quite sometime.

I do lots of solo stalking which is great too for some peace and a great walk about. But stalking with friends old and new is best I think.
 
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