Too much to bear.

Oh my goodness. What to say for the best. I suspect nothing I say would help greatly. But you and your son are in my thoughts. It's easy to tell you to remember all the good things about your son's life but that'll be pretty much overshadowed by his passing at the moment and I suspect for a good while. But long term, although you can't forget anything, you will learn to think of him and things you and he did with a smile on your face. You will get through it.
 
cannot imagine the pain you and your family are going through, no words are enough the love you have as a family and your memories of your son are all that matters.
 
Dear God, I’m so sorry to hear this news teyhan
Losing a loved one at such a young age… well I just can’t comprehend it.
All I can offer are my thoughts and prayers for you and all your family.

RIP young fella
 
I do not know what to do.

My son ( my avatar ) has died. He was 20 and was killed in a head on car collision.

After deer stalking for 30+ years I can barely bring myself to pick up a gun. It feels as though I have also lost a part of myself the trauma has been so great.

Horrible, horrible.

For what little they’re worth, my condolences.

maximus otter
 
Words cant express the sadness
I wish you well
As others say lean on your supports
You can and will get through this horrendous time - it will be slow and painful - but you really can
 
My thoughts are with you. I cannot conceive of the sense of loss should I be faced with such.
Hopefully your real and closest friends will be there for you.
 
@teyhan1

To suffer the loss of a child, is the most unbearable burden, that any parent can face.

You will (of course) never get over it.

You will (I promise you) learn to live with it.

Life will never again be the same, it will be different, it will have its highs and lows, but it will never again be the same - how could it?

Your beautiful son will 'live on', in the memories of those who knew and loved him. It is apparent that they are legion.

I very much hope, that you can draw strength from your family and your friends, in the the days, weeks, and months ahead.

The unutterable grief, that you and yours will be feeling, is the price we pay for love - it is an expensive commodity.

That your son is grieved for, is the physical manifestation that he was loved.

I wish you and yours peace.
 
As all others have said ,, what a terrible thing to cope with ,, let time do its thing with the grief ,, very sad indeed ,, atb Arron 😥
 
I am so very sorry to hear about this. I am currently teaching our 20 year old twins to drive & this is my worst nightmare. My thoughts are with you.
 
No words I could ever say can express my sincere sympathy for you loss.
Lost my best mate afew years ago and it still hurts every time I think of them.
Please accept my thoughts and prayers
Jimmy
 
That's dreadful new, the most heartbreaking. This is against the natural order of things, to have to bury a child. My deepest and sincerest condolences. I will be thinking of you all.
 
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