Advice needed: Ex partner and threats to call the police.

[Kjf]

Really? You think someone threatening to call the police and say you were being difficult is a good person to carry on a relationship with?

Sorry, but you need to boot her arse out the door or get yourself out….no partner worth staying with should use such threats

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Get rid of her , that's some vindictive / nasty behaviour off a so called partner ,

She is a nasty peice of work mate , no trusting her after snide comments like that , the premeditated nasty thought/ threat has been well thought about off her

Kjf

 

[User00040]

Trade her in for a low-mileage Thai model.

Those are better kept as a rental otherwise you will find interesting bills in your future (water buffalo sick, brother broke leg in accident and needs new motorbike, parents house needs new roof as swept away in a storm... etc!)

 

[Tim.243]

Those are better kept as a rental otherwise you will find interesting bills in your future (water buffalo sick, brother broke leg in accident and needs new motorbike, parents house needs new roof as swept away in a storm... etc!)

New teeth bigger tit s............

 

[Fair Hill]

Those are better kept as a rental otherwise you will find interesting bills in your future (water buffalo sick, brother broke leg in accident and needs new motorbike, parents house needs new roof as swept away in a storm... etc!)

Sounds like the voice of experience.

A lad I know fell in love with number 9 and continued the long distance relationship until he confided and asked for advice. He was after sending her thousands thinking she was at home minding an elderly parent.

 

[Davsim]

There are numerous shooting associations / legal cover options .To put your mind at rest ,get some legal advice . There has been some sound advice here regarding put them to the RFD etc . I have been told if you voluntarilly surrender your firearms your legal cover will not kick in . The police do have a duty to keep the public safe, so it's a difficult line for them The police however are well aware that people's wives partners can be vindictive .That old saying "He'll hath no fury like a woman scorned ". It isnt something that will come as a shock to them .

 

[kimh]

Sorry to hear this

Only you know if it’s over

Be honest with yourself

If it is

Get the weapons out and stored

Tell your feo (there’s no point ****ing about)

They will ask you to vol surrender licence

If you don’t they will take it anyway and it will be harder to get back

Now the important bit

Any and I mean any argument, heated discussion or whatever you want to call a inflammatory exchange of words or otherwise - record

On phone on video on any thing you can

You do not want to be in a position that an allegation is made against you and there’s no witness to say - that didn’t happen

Even the phone down in a room recording will get that

You don’t have to point it whilst being engaged in the argument

Don’t raise your voice

Don’t inflame things

Don’t raise anything physical


Let the phone be your witness



Sadly I know many people who have been in your position and not had the wherewithal to keep calm and say nothing

if the partner is going to go and relationship end then end it quick and exit

Hard place to be

I’ve been there

There's your answer

 

[Soap]

A mate of mine just had an argument with his missus no threat with firearms mentioned but the police took them just in Case!
He’s not got them back and the police said take it to court if you like but if you loose you’ll pay their costs too!

 

[Moray]

My partner and I have been living together for a number years and as many up and down the country have hit a sour spot in our relationship, we had words the other day and out of the blue she mentioned that if I carry on being difficult she's tell the police as she knows that being a licensed firearms holder they'll have no choice but to confiscate my rifles.

She's since apologised for the outburst but it has got me worrying as I have a clean record and now this is stuck in my head on overdrive.

Has anyone else on here experienced a similar situation and any positive advice you can give would be appreciated.

Hi Mate.
Put your guns in storage . Then talk to the police explain where you have stored them and why .
Then do what you have to do with your problem
But don't get involved in confrontation.
Good luck