why build a bullet so far beyond the ability of your rifle to print it's potential....? that's pointless
I like your assumption that we can't be arsed it's only for deer.

A perfect 308 bullet won't make a centre chest shot deer any more dead than an average one at sensible ranges

An average well made reload with a high spec bullet is more accurate that a standard factory round, true or false mate? So are you saying people using factory ammo that doesn't group nearly as well as a sound reload don't respect the deer??
Oh right, no elitist snobbery there at all eh? Your rounds are better than my rounds so your a more respectful of the deer and better stalkers

If you respect the deer you'd spend more time in the field developing your stalking craft among the deer rather than at the loading bench and punching pointless holes in paper to work up loads that can't make deer deader than dead.