I dislike driving now, it is not a fear thing, i just dislike having cars driving badly all round me, too close to me and generally not understanding simple highway code rules.
I have driven for nearly 30 years, am blue light trained, HGV trained, drove fire engines for 15 years, done numerous driving refresher courses, every 3 years i think, off road driving and 4x4 courses, even an argo driving course.
The problem is young drivers are trained to pass a test, and that is it. They then get a pass and really believe that they can drive. Everyone rushes everywhere (i drive fast, and make positive progress, but am not reckless) but i see people in the morning rat race jumping lights, cutting folks up and the like, to get to work early and then bitch about how terrible work is. It makes no sense, i know that sounds really old, but i guess i am tired of cutting bodies out of cars.
Winter driving just amplifies this, on warm dry roads they get away with it more, but the driving in its own way is just as bad. I must admit that is drive 2 4x4 cars, had all the big powerful cars in the past, but now have a day by day 4x4 and a defender for my fishing, shooting and towing the argo and boat. It is 24 years old and is my winter car. it is not an extreme off roader, but has 2 alternators, 2 batteries and chunky tyres and a winch. Living in NE scotland i can see use for both and the landy is not a full time car or ideal for long journeys with the family.
But one thing to remember, a landy or decent 4x4 with ground clearance and proper winter style tyres should be able to go basically anywhere in sensible conditions. it will also let you get way further into trouble, and when 2 tones starts to slip it will slide properly, a kerb certainly wont stop it. If you get a landy or similar stuck, you will need another or a tractor to get you out.
One a final note, my wife drove a 2x4 skoda yeti for a couple of winters, and it stuck everywhere. It could not get up our road in a very gentle incline when icy. I had to tow it with the defender many times. Eventually i drove it and it came up the road no problem. It had all manner of traction control buttons that cut the power totally when it started to spin, even slightly, so when setting up motion it basically stopped every time it tried to move. Turning this off for 5 yards and it was actually quite a decent drive. I wonder how many drivers actually know what these features are for?