What do you mean you’re not buying the hold the forend ethos? It’s a 100% proven issue with light rifles in non-mild recoiling calibres.
Are you saying everyone is wrong?
The reason people shoot ok off a bipod is usually because it’s ‘not’ a featherweight barrel. Take a 30-06 in a 18” featherweight barrel and a 165g load, put on a bipod and shoot without holding on to the beast, see how it groups…then do the same with a good front daypack or sandbag rest,
Nipping the forend with a slightly firm hold, and watch the groups shrink before your eyes.