It is very much a thing about what to do with such items. For as your family gets further and further distant form the recipient so the connection inevitably diminishes. I knew my grandfather....or rather he knew me as he died when I was maybe five years old or so. So my kids never knew him and, indeed, my kids never knew my father. Eventually these medals often end up in a paper bag in the bag of a drawer somewhere and in reality forgotten.I gave my Grandfather's WW1 medals to the RMP museum as he was in military police and they have several pictures of him talking to the King and then Prince of Wales in France. The picture also featured in several books of the time. I've also got my father's framed and on the wall at home. Plus his pay book and discharge papers.
Exactly, living so far from family, I was afraid they would go missing when I fall off my perch. It was interesting the info they had on grandfather, recruited from the Met police to the Military police in 1915. There was also his 1911 Met police coronation medal. But no medal or info from his time in the Royal South African police.It is very much a thing about what to do with such items. For as your family gets further and further distant form the recipient so the connection inevitably diminishes. I knew my grandfather....or rather he knew me as he died when I was maybe five years old or so. So my kids never knew him and, indeed, my kids never knew my father. Eventually these medals often end up in a paper bag in the bag of a drawer somewhere and in reality forgotten.
Once events pass from living memory into history they lose relevance unless properly remembered. For myself, I was born and brought up in my early years in Germany. The was was only a couple of decades or so in the past, hence it was very much in the minds of all generations. I retain those memories still, and they'll always remain important to me. Most of them have absolutely zero relevance to today's generation though, and if they're not relevant they fade into obscurity. It's the natural order of things, sad as it may beEventually these medals often end up in a paper bag in the bag of a drawer somewhere and in reality forgotten.
Yes. This is 110% correct. It is how the Imperial War Museum knew that the entry in my late grandfather's Field Message Book about his Corporal's deeds on 1 July 1916, the first day of the Battle of the Somme, was a Victoria Cross citation as Corporal Dobson was dead when the dispatch was written and sent. The V.C. being at that time the only medal that could be awarded posthumously.Lieutenant Workman was subsequently awarded the Military Cross for his endeavours at an earlier raid but his mother had to write to the Secretary of War to get the MC as it was practice then not to give it to the family if awarded posthumously. This determined lady successfully lead a campaign to reverse this protocol and I am pleased to say the MC is still displayed and treasured by the family.