The hardest goodbye,again.

sako751sg

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Mentioned old Jake's time was getting close just at the turn of the year and although still coming a walk the lights were on but getting dimmer.

Had told the missus i'll leave her to book him in a wee while ago as she sees him all day and this morning she phoned in tears and said she had him booked for late this afternoon,apparently her trying to take the washing out of the machine whilst Jake was trying to climb in made her mind up. :lol:

Left work straight away and i'm sure all with dogs know the emotions and it's the shittiest feeling imaginable knowing you are calling time on a very dear and loyal friend who has spent some of the best times imaginable.
Decided to spend a couple of hours down the river where he has been at my side for hundreds of salmon getting landed which he loved.

Walked to the bridge and was just standing with him when he started walking into the water,which wasn't unusual,so thought i would take a pic for the missus.Took the first one,and and then tried changing to video thinking he would go up to his kness and stop,and all of a sudden where is he?The utter rocket had walked right out over a ledge and was in the very fast current head 10 miles down to the estuary.
His swimming at this age is very low in effort and i absolutely keeched myself as i had maybe 100m of that bank i could get down to before he was a goner so legged it that 100m to where an overhanging tree was,so jumped in and held on with one hand and waited for him.
Luckily he had seen me as he got closer and what effort he could give he came close enough to the side where i could grab his lug and get us both out.So so lucky as the river is well up and very fast.
Absolutely drenched but carried on the walk so he made sure our last day together was very memorable.Missus and Mac took him for his eternal sleep and once again an absolute huge void is left.
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Bloody hell mate. You could of been in trouble yourself! You have grit.

Let him rest, he's earned it and you both put his interest first. I applause you and your wife.
 
Think I’ve got some grit in my eye…

I too have an old b/w spaniel that is getting close to the end of his days - your expression about lights on but getting dimmer certainly apply to him & the way your old fella walked out into the river pretty much sums up what mine would do in the same circumstances, senility I think they’d call it.

The highlight of his day is going for a walk (now 4 times a day due to a combination of his inability to control his movements as well as he used to & the fact he tires very quickly) with his tennis ball - he loves that ball.

He’s lying in his bed at the moment staring up at me - I’m going to kiss him, he’s the last of my pack of three.

No consolation but you’ve done right by the old fella & he’s given you a lifetime of loyalty & a heap of memories I’d guess.
 
Sorry to read this Dave, losing a trusty companion is always so hard.
Well done Adele and Mac for taking care of the worst bit. You will all have a big hole in. Your hearts.
 
Think I’ve got some grit in my eye…

I too have an old b/w spaniel that is getting close to the end of his days - your expression about lights on but getting dimmer certainly apply to him & the way your old fella walked out into the river pretty much sums up what mine would do in the same circumstances, senility I think they’d call it.

The highlight of his day is going for a walk (now 4 times a day due to a combination of his inability to control his movements as well as he used to & the fact he tires very quickly) with his tennis ball - he loves that ball.

He’s lying in his bed at the moment staring up at me - I’m going to kiss him, he’s the last of my pack of three.

No consolation but you’ve done right by the old fella & he’s given you a lifetime of loyalty & a heap of memories I’d guess.
Meant to say miss him but then again maybe the autocorrect was right :love:
 
I am genuinely and sincerely sorry to hear of your loss and also that of Nimrod.
Please don't take this wrong but to be honest I wish that neither of you had posted at this time as I too am grieving the loss of my old mate Brno my 14 year old GWP.
Brno passed away on Sunday 8th, I had him from a pup. Though we've still got the Jack Russel that was my daughter's hanging around Brno was my dog and I've decided that he shall be the last that I will ever own.

I've never got used to the fact that dogs have a short life, but we must always ensure that they have a good life.
 
I am genuinely and sincerely sorry to hear of your loss and also that of Nimrod.
Please don't take this wrong but to be honest I wish that neither of you had posted at this time as I too am grieving the loss of my old mate Brno my 14 year old GWP.
Brno passed away on Sunday 8th, I had him from a pup. Though we've still got the Jack Russel that was my daughter's hanging around Brno was my dog and I've decided that he shall be the last that I will ever own.

I've never got used to the fact that dogs have a short life, but we must always ensure that they have a good life.
My heart goes out to all those who have gone through this recently. I think we all understand the emotional rollercoaster that the loss of one’s best friend brings - time after time; but it is the price we have to pay.
I too decided that old Skye was my last dog and endured eight miserable months - every morning coming out of the bathroom stepping over a dog that wasn’t there. Then “we” had a talk and decided to give it another go (actually Lady FB issued a Presidential Order - such was my misery) so we rehomed a 2 year old lab - she (also) doesn’t take no for an answer when it comes to affection; chews anything that is left about and hates being in my jeep but I am utterly blessed to have her - even when I trip over her as I come out of said bathroom…
🦊🦊
 
Can't thank all enough for the kind words folks,would like to say they all help to heal the wound but nope,as usual it's like ripping off the plaster and opening it all again but it's the way of the beast.

Took the young dog out first thing and thought that i would get everything out of the system and just home now and reading this with the floodgates open.

In a week i'll be able to think of him and the memories with a smile on the face instead of a tear but i know we all have to go through it when we choose such short lived besties.

To all in the comments who have recently lost or have ones coming to the end of their journey i can only say i hope the pain isn't as deep as it is with me but i've a feeling for the vast majority it will be.
 
Deeply sorry for the loss of old Jake. That story of him charging into the current at his age says it all, a total rocket to the finish. I’m glad you got that one last ‘drenched’ walk together to bookend all those years on the hill. I'm sure he’ll be a huge loss, it's never easy 😥
 
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