Monkey Spanker
Well-Known Member
Ahh, welcome to the forum mate! I knew I'd get you on here eventually!
I think 'trust' is probably a key word here. There also needs to be a clear 'leader' of the group also, as the sterotypical 'autonomous collective' leads to arguments! Although myself and Peter are good friends and intermingle to help as required, we both each run a fairly 'tight ship' and would never dream of stepping on each other's toes. Group members are only taken on if they are known and trusted. I think it is natural to be sceptical at first as things that sound too good to be true generally are! Mr 'Pointblank' on here has already eluded to this. Once group members realise that they are part of a fairly unique and privelaged group, they become happy to co-exist and work as required.
I suppose any such group is only likely to begin with someone who already has a load of ground? If you are that person and you are struggling to manage, maybe consider taking on a helper or 'apprentice' and you may well find it is a weight lifted from you!
Remember where you started and consider whether or not it is time to 'give something back'. Stalking can be a fairly lonely existance, but it can also be the start of long and lasting friendships. It's your choice really, but you can't take it with you when you're gone!
MS
I think 'trust' is probably a key word here. There also needs to be a clear 'leader' of the group also, as the sterotypical 'autonomous collective' leads to arguments! Although myself and Peter are good friends and intermingle to help as required, we both each run a fairly 'tight ship' and would never dream of stepping on each other's toes. Group members are only taken on if they are known and trusted. I think it is natural to be sceptical at first as things that sound too good to be true generally are! Mr 'Pointblank' on here has already eluded to this. Once group members realise that they are part of a fairly unique and privelaged group, they become happy to co-exist and work as required.
I suppose any such group is only likely to begin with someone who already has a load of ground? If you are that person and you are struggling to manage, maybe consider taking on a helper or 'apprentice' and you may well find it is a weight lifted from you!
MS
thanks but no thanks..